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Sexual orgasm is one important part of sexual pleasure that the two natural genders should be vastly educated on. But it is quite disheartening that the topic ‘sex’ is almost a taboo to be discussed especially amongst youths and teenagers, with the belief that a minimal discussion on sex would maintain something I call “Moral modesty”; whereas the opposite is the case. Thus, a lot of parents have failed to give a proper sex education especially to their female children. When I say sex education, I mean teaching the genders on how and why they should enjoy sex; that sex is not a chore, it is something that should be intimate and shared with their partners (partners here means married couples as I do not support sex outside marriage). But we have realised that a lot of women, while enjoying sexual intercourse find it hard to orgasm!

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Female orgasm has been tagged or regarded as something extra, something that takes lot of work to attain. Now the question is “is it difficult for women to orgasm?” because we have men orgasm almost all the time! And it’s like women have sex just to serve and please their partners, LOL. This brings me to ask another question which I haven’t really been able to figure out and that is, can we have between the two natural genders something called sexual pleasure equality?

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Below is a video on the reality of sexual pleasure disparity by Grace Wetzel on Tedx – click, watch and please drop your views on the comment box. Thank you.

As I conclude, I’d like to throw this to our ladies; take ownership of your pleasure, it is a right! Let go of shame and discuss with your partners what you want.